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Relationships: what kind of an ex are you?

No matter how fun a relationship is, there will come a time where things get so sour that both of y'all can't handle it and decides to break-up, thus becoming exes. How things stay between the two of you is dependent on how  the relationship ended or the kind of a person you guys are.  The subject of exes can be quite complicated. We have all reacted differently from our break-ups depending on how we feel about the person we are breaking-up with. Some exes are bitter and hateful whilst other exes and loving and caring. Here is a list of different kinds of axes that you might be, or might have encountered already. 1. The quick healer ex This kind of exes will stress the F out of you. They can move on within a space of a weak or a month and leave you all hurt and struggling to heal. These exes are either friendly or bitter depending on their personalities. Some of them might even rub their new relationships in your face, thus making it even harder for you to move on.

A Romentic Date Night With Your Self

The most important relationship you can ever have is with yourself. It is very imperative to have some alone time and embrace being single because this is the perfect time for you to create a healthy relationship from within.  Being single is an opportunity to connect with your inner self, it is an opportunity for you to appreciate and treat yourself well. Let me tell you sies, just because you are single, that doesn't mean you can't have some romantic settings and romantic moments, in fact, you can have plenty of those moments. Well, I just thought I should share with you some ideas on how to host yourself a solo romantic date night on a Friday. 1.   Clean up your space  Make sure that your space is clean and tidy. a clean space invites good energy, which is exactly what you are looking for. 2. Set up your space  set up your space as you would if you were hosting your boyfriend. Light candles, have some flowers, and make sure that your space smells great. 3. Bring

Why you should always wear a matching lingerie

A nice, sexy matching pair of lingerie is the basic foundation of happiness and ultimate self-confidence. It accentuates your shape, makes you feel better about yourself, and brings you all-important body confidence that you will need to kick start your day.  If you have been wearing a mix and unmatched set of underwears then this is the time to redeem yourself. It has been reported that women who wear a matching set of underwear every morning feel sexier, more desirable, and attractive, and they have a more positive, and playful approach to their day. You really cannot afford to deny yourself the pleasure and excitement that comes with wearing a matching set of underwear. The moment you put on a sexy lingerie and you look at yourself in the mirror, you will feel your confidence oozing all over your body even when you are wearing clothes. Personally, wearing a matching set of lingerie has become synonymous to my power dressing. Matching lingerie is a secret that boosts my c

The Perfect Jean For Your Perfect Body

Shopping for jeans that will effortlessly look good on your banging body can be stressful and daunting, especially if you don't know/understand your body type. Personally, when I shop for jeans, I look for jeans that will make my waist look small and my butt a little bit bigger, and I am certain that this is what everyone is looking for in jeans. if you have been having a problem with finding jeans that will complement your body, no matter your body size and shape, don't despair, this post is definitely for you. First, you need to know your body type/shape Shape 1,3, and 4, look good in lower rise jeans. Low-rise jeans emphasize the hips and create curves. Shape 2,5,6 and 7 look great in high waist jeans. What to know about colors  Darker colors on jeans, make them appear small and light colors make them appear to be big. Jeans that have a light wash will make you appear twice as your natural appearance. For instance, if you are thin and tall, these kind

How to always look put together

Nothing is more sophisticated than looking put together.  It is fashionable, stylish, and Godly. However, some people fail to look put together due to "lord know what" reasons.  Looking put together is very easy and very cheap. You don't need to have a lot of money to look good. It only takes self-love, creativity and being conscious about the world around you. If you want to look put together, here are some tips for you;  1. Personal grooming A simple and correct personal grooming is important. You don't have to spend a lot of money to look good. Tip one: learn how to do your hair and change hairstyle frequently. Tip two:   don't put on a lot of makeup. Remember simplicity is the ultimate sophistication. The less make up you put, the more sophisticated you look.  2. Skincare It is very important to take good care of your skin. Always make sure that your skin is hydrated at all times. Apply a night create on your face before you sleep and day cream in

How to be productive when you are feeling unmotivated

We don't always feel motivated. Sometimes you can sleep feeling like you are on top of the world and wake up feeling like the world is on top of you. Sometimes you just have zero energy, zero motivation and zero enthusiasm to work.  This is common to every single human being. Even people who look like they are hard workers do experience so many moments where they don't want to do anything.  If you are feeling less motivated but want to be productive. Here are some tips to go about it. 1. Clean your space A clean space can make you feel better, enhance your mood, and give you some energy.  2. Get ready as if you are going out. Take a bath/ shower, put on some makeup and get dressed as if you are going out. This will get you into the mood. If you stay the whole day in your pyjamas with messy hair, you will feel lazy and will not feel like doing anything. 3. Drink a cup of coffee to kick start your day Coffee boost brainpower. The combination of caffeine and glucose ac

Hacks to make your home smell good

A good smelling home is such a mood. Nothing beats a cleaned, disinfected, and polished house that smells good.  If you don't have money to spend on expensive home sprays, don't despair, I got you. Here are some hacks for making your home smell amazing. 1. Simmer aroma Take a pot of boiling water, bring it down to simmer. Add sliced lemon, rosemary and a tablespoon of vanilla extract and allow that to simmer at a low temperature the whole day. This will leave your home smelling amazing. I swear.  2. Fridge deodorizer  Take a mason jar, put in a fair amount of baking soda. Put on a cheesecloth on top of the jar and put on the outer rim on the lit and put it inside of your fridge. This is going to absorb all the unwanted smell in your fridge. You can leave this in your fridge for up to six months.  3. Bathroom refresher Take a toilet paper roll and add few drops of essential oil to the inside of your toilet paper roll. This will leave our toilet smelling amazing. 4. Fresh